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Your Guide to a Successful Divorce: Avoid These 5 Common Mistakes

Your Guide to a Successful Divorce: Avoid These 5 Common Mistakes

Divorce is a monumental process that often has lifelong consequences which means that making informed decisions is paramount. The divorce journey can be emotionally taxing and legally complex, and financially challenging, so approaching it with careful consideration and expert guidance is imperative. Here, we delve into five all-too-common mistakes that individuals often make during divorce proceedings, along with tips on how to avoid them.

Remember, every divorce case is unique, and seeking guidance from a qualified attorney is crucial to avoid these mistakes and achieve the best possible outcome. To ensure you’re on the right track, consider scheduling a consultation by calling our office at 985-845-2227.

  1. Insufficient Planning

As the old saying goes, “Failing to plan is planning to fail.” One of the biggest blunders in divorce proceedings is embarking on the journey without proper planning which can lead to unfavorable outcomes and prolonged disputes. To steer clear of this pitfall, take the time to understand your rights, gather all pertinent financial documents, and consult with an experienced attorney before initiating the divorce process. A well-laid plan sets the tone for a smoother divorce journey.

  1. Lack of Communication

Communication breakdowns between spouses escalate conflicts and hinder progress in divorce negotiations. Open lines of communication are especially critical when discussing matters like child custody, property division, and financial arrangements. Prioritize effective communication to ensure a fair and mutually acceptable settlement which can save thousands in costs and years of stress.

  1. Neglecting Emotional Well-being

Divorce affects emotional well-being, potentially impacting decision-making, and overall mental health. It’s crucial to seek emotional support from friends, family, or professional counselors to navigate this challenging period. By prioritizing self-care, you can approach negotiations with a clearer mind and make decisions that align with your long-term best interests.

  1. Hiding Facts from your Attorney

Attempting to conceal facts or withholding information from your attorney during divorce proceedings is a grave error. Full transparency with your attorney is necessary to get the best possible representation and outcome.  Your attorney cannot properly advise and represent you without all the facts.

  1. Rushing the Process

Rushing through the divorce process or agreeing to a quick settlement might seem like a quick escape during the emotional upheaval. However, making impulsive decisions can lead to long-term repercussions. Take the time to thoroughly evaluate each aspect of the divorce with your attorney and consult with other financial professionals when necessary to ensure that the final settlement is fair, reasonable, and aligned with your long-term goals.

In conclusion, divorce is a significant life transition that requires careful consideration and thoughtful decision-making. Avoiding these common mistakes—insufficient planning, lack of communication, neglecting emotional well-being, hiding facts from your attorney, and rushing the process—can pave the way for a more favorable outcome. 

Remember, seeking guidance from a qualified attorney is pivotal in ensuring your divorce journey is as smooth and successful as possible. To begin your journey toward a well-informed and favorable divorce, schedule a consultation by calling our office at 985-845-2227. Your future deserves the best possible outcome from these difficult circumstances.

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Surviving Domestic Violence: Should you file for a Protective Order?

Are you in an abusive relationship? Does your spouse abuse or threaten you and/or your children? Are you constantly planning to get away, but feel crippled by the fear that your significant other might come after you?

A protective order is a tool that you may want to use to keep yourself and your family safe. However, it can be tricky to evaluate whether you’d qualify for one, or what the process to obtain a protective order is. Sometimes, law enforcement agencies or child protective services will suggest that you apply for a protective order in lieu of any actual agency action. But this is not always the answer. Here are some tidbits you might find helpful:

  1. What is a Protective Order?

    Most people use terms like “TRO, PO, and Civil Restraining Order” interchangeably, yet they are all a little bit different. Protective orders can be filed under several statutes. The most common protective order is filed under La. R.S. 46: 2131, also known as the Domestic Abuse Assistance Act. This law provides assistance for survivors of domestic violence, and describes domestic abuse as “including, but not limited to, physical or sexual abuse.”

    Typically, while it can and does vary depending on the jurisdiction you’re in, the Court is generally looking for instances of serious physical abuse. This usually falls under categories such as slapping, punching, choking, kicking, etc., or threats to cause seriously body harm or death to someone.

  2. Who can apply for a protective order under La. R.S. 46:2131?

    Under the statute, only family and household members with a sufficient relationship can apply. Family members, as defined in La. R.S. 46: 2132, include “spouses, former spouses, parents and children, stepparents and stepchildren, foster parents and foster children.”

    Household members means any person living in the same residence with the defendant and who is involved or has been involved in a sexual or intimate relationship with the defendant.

  3. Where can I file for a protective order?

    If you decide to file for an Order of Protection, you will typically go to the clerk of court. This can be:

    • In the parish where the marital household is located

    • In the parish where the defendant lives

    • In the parish where the abuse happened

    • In the parish where the person seeking the protective order lives

    • In the parish where an action for divorce could be brought, pursuant to La. Code of Civil Procedure Article 3941(a).

  4. What happens next?

    Once you go to the clerk of court, they should issue you a blank form titled “Petition for Protection from Abuse.” It will have a series of blank lines for you to fill in your information. You can choose to keep your address confidential. There will be a page where you will be able to fill in “Most Recent Incident,“ and “Past Incidents of Abuse.” It is very important that you be as specific as possible about the instances of abuse. When you get to court, your testimony will be limited to what you put on this piece of paper. Take your time and ask for extra paper if you need it!
    Your petition will then be handed to a duty judge, and they will either grant or deny a temporary restraining order. Whether they grant or deny the temporary order, this will still be set for a hearing at the courthouse, usually within 30 days. Even if your temporary order is granted, that does not mean that you will prevail at the hearing.

    Whether your temporary order is granted or denied, the Courthouse will call and let you know, and will also send you notice of your hearing date. At this hearing, the Commissioner/Hearing Officer or Judge will determine whether or not to grant a protective order for anywhere from 3-18 months.

    This hearing is important. Call a lawyer, at the very least for a consultation. There are serious consequences that can result from having a protective order issued against you.

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DIY: Filing for Divorce on your own

So you’ve decided that you’re ready to file for divorce. What comes next? Well, in Louisiana, there are required periods of separation in order to be eligible for a divorce. If you have minor children, you must be living separate and apart for 365 days. If you don’t have minor children, that separation period is lessened to 180 days.

It is always a good idea to at least consult with an attorney about your options prior to filing for divorce. However, sometimes your situation may be simple enough that you can file for divorce on your own, without the help of an attorney. If you don’t have minor children together (or are completely on the same page about custody and support), and don’t have extensive community assets, it may be possible to get divorced without incurring the costs for an attorney. In this blog, we’ll talk about the two different divorce filings, and how to file for an Article 103.1 divorce on your own.

In Louisiana, there are two options for filing for divorce. There’s a divorce under Article 102, which means that you have not yet started the required separation period, but intend to as of the date of filing. A divorce under Article 103 is essentially the opposite: you file under Article 103.1 when you and your former spouse have already completed the necessary separation period and are ready to move forward with filing and confirming the divorce. There are many other differences between these two types of divorces and you should consult with an attorney prior to determining how you will file.

Assuming you and your spouse have been separate and apart for the requisite amount of time, and you’re ready to file for divorce under Article 103.1, the following bullet points should guide you on how to get your uncontested divorce filed and confirmed in a few short weeks.

In St. Tammany Parish, standardized forms are available for you on ; here, you will click on “Divorce Forms,”and click on the Petition for 103 Divorce along with the Checklist. Make sure to print these out on legal sized paper (Office Depot or your local library may be able to do this for you).

You will fill out the forms, and at the end, there’s an option to either have your spouse formally served by a sheriff’s deputy, or to have your spouse “waive service.” Make sure that you indicate a detailed and correct address. If your spouse is going to waive service, that means they are willing to sign the waiver of service form that’s contained in the Petition for 103 Divorce, in front of a notary. This will save you some money, so it’s the best option if it’s feasible.

Once your former spouse has been served or the waiver of service has been filed into the court record, your spouse has 15 calendar days to file an answer. Assuming the divorce is uncontested and they don’t file an answer, the next step is to fill out file the page titled “Preliminary Default” into the court record. This form is simple and indicates to the court that your former spouse was served or waived service, and that the deadline to file an answer has passed.

Once you file this Preliminary Default, you must wait until it is signed by the Judge. Call the Clerk of Court routinely and ask for an update on the status of your preliminary default (have your docket number and division handy; they can be found at the top of your divorce paperwork).

Once your preliminary default has been entered, there will be an affidavit that was contained inside the Petition for Divorce that must be filled out and signed in front of a notary. Once you complete the affidavit, attach two copies of the judgment (the packet only comes with one) and your checklist (this should be complicated with the dates the Petition was filed, the date service was waived or made upon the defendant, and the date of preliminary default), and file all three forms in the court record. Within a few weeks, the judgment will be presented to the Judge for signature. If everything is in order and has been properly filed, the Judge will sign off on your divorce and mail both parties a certified copy of your divorce decree.

Congratulations! Once you receive your divorce decree, it is official!

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Family Law

Divorce is a difficult time in anyone’s life. At Oriol Law Firm in Covington, Louisiana, we are here to provide help when you need us most. Please contact Oriol Law Firm for assistance with your family law issue. We serve clients in St. Tammany Parish and the surrounding areas in need of the following legal services:

  • Divorce: We offer trusted legal advice and representation throughout the divorce process, helping our clients resolve family law issues such as asset and debt division, spousal support, child custody and child support.
  • Division of Property: Louisiana is a community property state, which means that property accumulated during your marriage will usually be divided 50-50. However, determining what is community property and what isn’t can be complicated.
  • Spousal Support: Spousal support may be an issue in your divorce, depending on how long you were married and whether there are income disparities between you and your spouse.
  • Child Custody, Visitation and Support: In Louisiana, courts presume that joint custody will be in the best interests of the child unless there are compelling reasons for one parent to have sole custody, and arriving at a reasonable custody schedule that considers the best interest of the child can be difficult.
  • Modifications to Child Support and Custody: Child support and child custody can be changed after your divorce if there is a change in your circumstances. However, you will need court approval for many modifications or you could face fines and even jail time for acting without court approval.
  • Inter-Family and Foreign Adoptions: Certain closely related family members may adopt children in a stream-lined adoption process known as the Intra-Family Adoption. While this process requires knowledge of the procedural requirements, it is usually less costly and more efficient than a traditional adoption.Children adopted from foreign countries may have their adoption recodnized by the State of Lousiana. This process involves providing the required documentation to a Court in the parish you reside.
  • Interdictions: Unfortunately, there are those who cannot make important decisions for themselves. These individuals often include special needs, the elderly, and those with significant medical conditions, and it is important that a family member or loved one be appointed by a Court to make decisions on their behalf.
  • Mediations: Sometimes you need a skilled litigator to fight for you, and other times you need a skilled mediator to help resolve a stressful and emotional matter. David Oriol is experienced and highly trained in litigation and mediation.
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Estate Planning

An estate plan can play a vital role in your peace of mind and financial security. An experienced and attentive attorney can ensure that your estate plan accurately reflects your wishes and protects your interests. David Oriol is a skilled attorney who establishes last will and testaments in accordance with their clients’ wishes and best interests, and you can count on him for skilled help with your estate plan.

Types of Estate Planning Documents

There are several estate planning directives that can benefit you, your family and your family’s legacy. At Oriol Law Firm we can help you explore your options in establishing any or all of the following:

  • Last Will and Testament: This directive comes into effect after you die and directs how you want your estate to be divided. In your will, you can appoint an administrator, who will handle the succession process. In a last will and testament, you essentially give your estate away in proportionate amounts and leave particular items to particular individuals. For example, you may decide to leave all of your cash to one child and all of your real estate to another. Or, you may choose to gift money to an organization and leave the remainder of your estate to your family.
  • Trusts: You may want to leave a portion of your estate to someone incapable of managing that gift, such as a child. A trust will ensure that your gift is appropriately managed to the benefit of the individual to whom it was intended.
  • Powers of Attorney: By granting an individual power of attorney, you are giving him or her the ability to conduct financial business on your behalf. For example, the person with power of attorney can sign your checks, make withdrawals out of your bank accounts and pay your bills on your behalf. Powers of Attorney can also include a provision for medical situations.

If you need estate planning documents such as a will document, or if you are unsure about which documents you require, call us at (985) 845-2227 to arrange a consultation. You can also contact us online.


When a person is named as administrator or appointed as executor of a last will and testament, he or she is tasked with various responsibilities. Some of these responsibilities can seem overwhelming, particularly if the individual has recently lost a close family member or friend.

At Oriol Law Firm we represent administrators and executors and can provide the legal representation to ensure the succession process is as seamless as possible. We also regularly assist out-of-state clients with succession needs in Louisiana. Contact our law firm to schedule your consultation.

Duties of Executors

As an executor, you will become responsible for participating in certain legal procedures. David Oriol can ensure you meet your responsibilities in the process of obtaining will enforcement, which is essentially the enforcement of your loved one’s wishes.
As an executor, you will need to ensure that the following estate administration duties are met:

  • Open the succession
  • Identify heirs and beneficiaries
  • Identify and value estate’s property and assets
  • Pay estate debts (if applicable)
  • Pay estate taxes (if applicable)
  • Appear in court (if necessary)

Distribute property and assets to heirs

The above is not an all-inclusive list, and there are many complicated nuances involved in a succession. David Oriol can ensure you meet all of your duties, file the proper paperwork and provide skilled advice and guidance throughout the succession process. If you have been named as executor or administrator, call us at (985) 845-2227 to arrange a consultation. You can also contact us online.

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